Sunday, May 11, 2008

Happy Mother's Day!



It was a mini paper bag shaped like a heart with a 'love note' in it. Ryan's declaration of love to mummy. How sweet!
Like a warm hug for mummy, this gift serves as a reminder that Ryan is afterall a kid. Mummy has been bugged by the CC teachers' negative feedback on Ryan's behaviour. They claimed Ryan would not want to get involved in class yet loved to disturb the others during the teaching. Teachers hope I could talk to him.

Talk reason to a 4 year old boy? Don't know about other parents, mummy and daddy actually feel rather helpless in this field.
Ryan is obedient, or at least controllable when mummy is around. Other time he loves to be 'carefree'. Daddy said Ryan has mentioned to him that the classes are boring and he asked why he needs to attend. FAINTZZ...

We need professional help. Stickers/reward system does not work on him. Time-out leaves no trace on him. Reasoning/dialogue flies out of his left ear as soon as it enters his right. SIAO!!!! KNOCK HEAD ON WALL!!
Mummy can't be sitting by his side during school time, right? That's does not solve the problem at its root. But what else can we do?

We suspect that such attention seeking behaviour may be caused by our new addition at home: Demi. Somehow it must have some impact on him. Meanwhile this little monster, not yet walk on her own, has learned to climb up and down from sofa.



Some pictures taken with grandpa and grandma on Mother's Day: Dinner at Crystal Jade and Ice-cream at Haagen Dazs










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